Obituary for Raymond D. "Ray" Shea
Raymond D. Shea, of West Hartford, entered into eternal life unexpectedly, on Sunday, February 28, 2021. He was a man of great faith and is now with his beloved wife, Louise who predeceased him in 2015.
Ray Shea was a well-known and admired firefighter, labor leader, mediator, arbitrator, Knight, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend to all. He blessed every person that he met with his huge smile and generous spirit. At age 90, Ray continued his work at the Labor Board, and though he much preferred talking with people in person, he managed to conduct meetings during the pandemic over Zoom.
Ray was an army veteran, serving in the Korean war from 1952-1954. Ray then had a distinguished career as a Lieutenant with the West Hartford Fire Department. It was there that he began a lifetime of advocacy for firefighters and union workers across the State of Connecticut. He served as local union President and negotiated the first municipal contract for firefighters in the Town of West Hartford in 1966. In the years following he served as President of the state chapter of the Uniformed Professional Fire Fighters Association and was delegate to the State Labor Council, AFL-CIO. He negotiated contracts for firefighters in every corner of the State. He will be widely remembered for his lobbying the State Legislature to pass the Heart and Hypertension law in 1977.For the past 40 years he has served as union arbitrator at the State Labor Board of Mediation and Arbitration.
Ray served as State Chair of the Muscular Dystrophy Association drive, co-hosting the annual Labor Day Telethon for many years. For his entire adult life, Ray was deeply involved with the Church of St. Brigid and the Knights of Columbus (4th Degree).
Ray touched the lives of so many and will be dearly missed by all who knew him, whether through work, his community efforts or his daily visit to the Elmwood bakery. Ray’s world really revolved around his family. Ray and Louise were always the first to arrive for every family gathering or grand kid’s event with the utmost enthusiasm. Ray loved to partake in family activities, most recently golf and shooting pool, but it all centered around being together. We will miss the love, laughter and song that he so easily bestowed upon us.
He leaves his children, Patricia Shea and husband Peter Lovell of Milford, James Goodwin and wife Marcia of Newington, and Marie Tirone and husband Robert of Texas, six grandchildren Jason and Jamie Lovell, Stacey Goodwin, Susan Quinones, Robert Jr. and Beth Tirone and 5 great grandchildren. He leaves his sister, Joan Shea Buckley and many loving nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his siblings Eileen Boardman, William Shea, Alice Kingsley, and Gerald Shea.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 am on Friday, March 5, at St. Brigid Church in West Hartford. Burial will follow at Fairview Cemetery. Calling hours will be Thursday, March 4, from 3pm – 6pm. at St. Brigid Church (Parking available across the street at Sheehan Hilborn Breen Funeral Home, 1084 New Britain Ave, West Hartford). In light of the ongoing pandemic, we welcome the option to submit remembrances of Ray on-line at www.RayShea.com. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to the St. Brigid Knights of Columbus, 97 Randal Ave, West Hartford, CT 06110 or the West Hartford Firefighters Scholarship Fund at 2458 Albany Ave, West Hartford, CT 06117. Sheehan Hilborn Breen Funeral Home, West Hartford has care of the arrangements. www.SheehanHilbornBreen.com
Ray Shea was a well-known and admired firefighter, labor leader, mediator, arbitrator, Knight, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend to all. He blessed every person that he met with his huge smile and generous spirit. At age 90, Ray continued his work at the Labor Board, and though he much preferred talking with people in person, he managed to conduct meetings during the pandemic over Zoom.
Ray was an army veteran, serving in the Korean war from 1952-1954. Ray then had a distinguished career as a Lieutenant with the West Hartford Fire Department. It was there that he began a lifetime of advocacy for firefighters and union workers across the State of Connecticut. He served as local union President and negotiated the first municipal contract for firefighters in the Town of West Hartford in 1966. In the years following he served as President of the state chapter of the Uniformed Professional Fire Fighters Association and was delegate to the State Labor Council, AFL-CIO. He negotiated contracts for firefighters in every corner of the State. He will be widely remembered for his lobbying the State Legislature to pass the Heart and Hypertension law in 1977.For the past 40 years he has served as union arbitrator at the State Labor Board of Mediation and Arbitration.
Ray served as State Chair of the Muscular Dystrophy Association drive, co-hosting the annual Labor Day Telethon for many years. For his entire adult life, Ray was deeply involved with the Church of St. Brigid and the Knights of Columbus (4th Degree).
Ray touched the lives of so many and will be dearly missed by all who knew him, whether through work, his community efforts or his daily visit to the Elmwood bakery. Ray’s world really revolved around his family. Ray and Louise were always the first to arrive for every family gathering or grand kid’s event with the utmost enthusiasm. Ray loved to partake in family activities, most recently golf and shooting pool, but it all centered around being together. We will miss the love, laughter and song that he so easily bestowed upon us.
He leaves his children, Patricia Shea and husband Peter Lovell of Milford, James Goodwin and wife Marcia of Newington, and Marie Tirone and husband Robert of Texas, six grandchildren Jason and Jamie Lovell, Stacey Goodwin, Susan Quinones, Robert Jr. and Beth Tirone and 5 great grandchildren. He leaves his sister, Joan Shea Buckley and many loving nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his siblings Eileen Boardman, William Shea, Alice Kingsley, and Gerald Shea.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 am on Friday, March 5, at St. Brigid Church in West Hartford. Burial will follow at Fairview Cemetery. Calling hours will be Thursday, March 4, from 3pm – 6pm. at St. Brigid Church (Parking available across the street at Sheehan Hilborn Breen Funeral Home, 1084 New Britain Ave, West Hartford). In light of the ongoing pandemic, we welcome the option to submit remembrances of Ray on-line at www.RayShea.com. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to the St. Brigid Knights of Columbus, 97 Randal Ave, West Hartford, CT 06110 or the West Hartford Firefighters Scholarship Fund at 2458 Albany Ave, West Hartford, CT 06117. Sheehan Hilborn Breen Funeral Home, West Hartford has care of the arrangements. www.SheehanHilbornBreen.com